For some parents, it can feel awkward and uncomfortable, boring, frustrating, or annoying too. Masking those feelings for the sake of your child’s well-being can lead to the emotional eruption or withdrawal of play, attention, or affection.

 

Here are some tips to work through play with your child.

 

*It’s okay to say no, I don’t want to play or do that. I would like to do this instead. Let’s play these toys beside one another (parallel play). So, your child trusts your presence will remain—while maintaining and role modeling autonomy.

 

*It’s okay to not always have to do the heavy work. For example, I will give you 4 big pushes on the swing, then I will swing beside you. Encourage the practice of pumping those skills and awaiting the next turn.

 

*Choose which tasks of play you prefer. For example, stating I prefer not to talk for barbie, however, I will help set up the rooms or accessories for the dolls. I will stay and observe while you engage with them.